You matter !

It is completely alright to feel attached to that one person who means a bit more than any other. Human nature. We are definitely social animals. It is quite ordinary to feel extra connected to one person in our lives. It may be the mom, dad, friend, spouse, sibling or someone out of the blue.

I often wonder how this string matters enough to affect the inner self. One person, who could impact your decisions, put you through an emotional roller coaster and get you do things you never anticipated.

Like each package comes with pros and cons, this unique feeling brings along with it, its ups and downs.

On the positive note, you always have someone by your side. The very feeling brings in peace and relief. The need hierarchy plays right with the need for security and safety. We crave for unconditional love, with boundaries that would never matter.

I feel this is very important. To share what you feel within at least with that one person. If not, anger would turn into agony; love would turn into painful memories.

The bad in store is that the person may not revert to you. You may not be that ‘special’ one for them.

So what?

What you feel is what your heart says. What is wrong with loving someone who doesn’t love you back? What is wrong with seeking friendship from those who value it not?

What I try to express here is that it is completely alright to have that one person who you look up to at every situation. At the moment, you may not be given justice, in terms of emotions or rights.

Nevertheless, there is always a day when they would realise how much they meant to you and how not each one is lucky enough to have a person like you in their lives.