Wednesday, 16 November 2016

The fear of letting go!


A very weird feeling often engulfs me. It acts as a sweet pain, a mere pleasure, yet troubles my soul. I tried hard to identify, to know what had secluded me off my true essence.
Days passed by with times getting harder to witness. Where laid the problem, I cried to understand. A deep thought, a cup of coffee. With passing winds, I felt a realization. 

A fear lied within, a feeling that I had no clue of, yet was sure about its existence.
We often come across situations where we stick on to something that breaks us. Why do we do so? Memories bind our hearts and souls. A relief, a comfort zone, which we believe we would share with no one else.

When things are not on track, the issue is clear, yet a subtle trust and complete effort to make it work. For how long can a human push oneself? When saturation strikes, the zone loses its route.
Why do we still fear to let go of that person or that feeling? It has captured the inner self.

There is a point where you should decide to step out of what has troubled you most and give life a fresh meaning. That is when you experience the real. The real, outside the cocoon you hid yourself within.

Do not fear to let go, to let go of something that does not seem worth it. At one point, the decision would serve you relief and pleasure in spite of the days of pain caused.
Do not fear letting go, letting go of anything that is below what you deserve.

Explore the new and live the moment to make the most of it. There is always a better stand out there; it will come to you, definitely, at the right time.

After all, it is all destined to happen that way!


Thursday, 25 August 2016

BOOKS MARKETING STUNT

Marketing. It is the talk of the town in the current scenario. No matter what one has to sell, this activity takes prior importance.

Why is it so?

Competition, rat race, they all say so. Today, each one has something unique to portray. But that is not it. Even if you have the best of worlds to sell, it would not be a success if you do not have the right tactics to market it. The target is achieved when you are able to reach out to the right audience with the best convincing skills.
As a debut author I was not much aware of how important this function was. Luckily, having one of the best publishers, I could get through with a fair amount of good marketing for my book.
So I decided to put up this article for people who are debutants and need quick tips to find a platform to sell their books. I also got points from some experienced authors to get this done.

      1.  Search and surf
In my experience, this was the best way I could get hold of people who are involved in this field. Book reviewers, bloggers, media staff and many others come your way. I spent hours looking for them, trying to contact them. It is not enough if you just get hold of the right people, you need to contact them, let them know about your work and gather support.
Being experts in the field, no one could help better promote the book than them.
Moreover, reviews and author interviews build a huge readership for the book.

      2.  Never be shy to self promote
If you fear publicising your own work, selling would become a challenge. It is your work, your effort. Never hesitate or think twice before going ahead and using all possible channels to advertise your book. If you don’t, who else would do it for you?

3. Social media
Social media has the power of sword. In this generation, one should make sure that the book is rigorously promoted on social media. The reach is quick and large. You can grab a huge crowd’s attention in social media with the least time. This would be the best platform. The best way to start off is by starting a page for your book and slowly expanding the reader and fan base.

Youtube channel
It would be preferable to start a Youtube channel where you share information and videos on your book, the launch and much other relevant information. This helps capture attention and get people know about your work.

4. Goodreads
Goodreads is one of the most happening platforms for authors and readers. Get registered, conduct giveaways and keep updating. This would help get readers from across the world.

      5. Distribute books even in small stores
Apart from the big sellers, try and get your book at small stores, libraries. Also give your book on rent to readers. This would help tap areas that social media cannot get to.

6. Start early
Promotion happens even before the book is available in the market. Get the people to know about your ‘soon to release’ book through all possible media including word of mouth. This will help create awareness and a ready market, even before it has released. Make a trailer for your book and be as creative as you can.

7. Networking matters
Network is definitely more important than networth. Get hold of the right people and keep in constant touch. Make sure you have someone to help you achieve better sales.

8. Have a blog
A blog becomes one of the most important tools to a writer to showcase thoughts and views. Having a blog enhances the marketing power for your book.

9. Speak to your publisher
Your publisher will be the best person to guide you in promoting your book. He/ she would have the right tactics, suitable to you and your content. There could be no better person to look up to for promotion avenues.

10. Signed copies
Last but never the least, give away signed copies of your book. This would surely bring in more readers but would also enhance your goodwill as a writer.

Though many of these points are known, I hope these tips are of some use to debut authors who are new entrants to the concept of book marketing.

Tuesday, 23 August 2016

BOOK REVIEW

Doha!: Diary of a Delhi-O-Holic by Anam Arsalan
BOOK REVIEW
My take on Doha!: Diary of a Delhi-O-Holic
The memoir, Doha! Diary of a Delhi-O-holic reflects the journey of the author, his venture in the Middle East, fondness for sports, quest for love and the highs and lows of the life of an expat.
What I loved about the book is how the author reflects in an honest way how an expat tagged as an 'NRI' or 'PIO' is looked upon as a money minting human with a luxurious lifestyle. The truth is mirrored as to how one engages into a potpourri of cultures, lifestyles and tries to blend into a complete new self.
Certain areas of the book seemed cliché. Neverethless, the attempt to bring out the reality of living in a new country, trying to establish oneself was brilliant.
I would rate this book 4.5.
A must read for sure. To experience a country through the eyes of an expat who has lived through it is always a treat.

You matter !

It is completely alright to feel attached to that one person who means a bit more than any other. Human nature. We are definitely social animals. It is quite ordinary to feel extra connected to one person in our lives. It may be the mom, dad, friend, spouse, sibling or someone out of the blue.
I often wonder how this string matters enough to affect the inner self. One person, who could impact your decisions, put you through an emotional roller coaster and get you do things you never anticipated.
Like each package comes with pros and cons, this unique feeling brings along with it, its ups and downs.
On the positive note, you always have someone by your side. The very feeling brings in peace and relief. The need hierarchy plays right with the need for security and safety. We crave for unconditional love, with boundaries that would never matter.
I feel this is very important. To share what you feel within at least with that one person. If not, anger would turn into agony; love would turn into painful memories.
The bad in store is that the person may not revert to you. You may not be that ‘special’ one for them.
So what?
What you feel is what your heart says. What is wrong with loving someone who doesn’t love you back? What is wrong with seeking friendship from those who value it not?
What I try to express here is that it is completely alright to have that one person who you look up to at every situation. At the moment, you may not be given justice, in terms of emotions or rights.
Nevertheless, there is always a day when they would realise how much they meant to you and how not each one is lucky enough to have a person like you in their lives.



Sunday, 19 June 2016

NO TIME TO PAUSE

Have you ever thought to yourself – I need to stay alone. I want some privacy and independence?
Well, I thought the same.

Life of a young adult is filled with joy and mystery.

‘No Time to Pause’ is a narration of a typical college student who decides to stay miles away from her family to get value education. She faces a host of challenges, encounters varied adventures and meets people who leave a tremendous impact on her life.

With the college term ending, she leaves the institution not only as an academic achiever, but also a strong woman ready to face the rough world out there.

She realises that life keeps moving on and there is no time to look back or regret.